Ok, this is an opinionated rant. Some of you may not agree with me, and that's all right. Feel free to add comments.
I wonder how many pet supply stores existed in 1950. 1960? Even 1970, the year of my birth? I’m not talking about pet stores, like the small, mom n’ pop type portrayed in the movie Because of Winn Dixie, attended by musician-turned-actor Dave Matthews. No, I’m talking about pet supply stores, like PetsMart, that exclusively offer pet toys, pet food, pet collars, pet rick-rack, pet books, “green” pet treats, ad nauseum, all under a mere 35 thousand square feet!
Don’t get me wrong. I love pets. I am the previous master to two dogs and numerous beta fish, may they rest in peace. I don’t begrudge anyone their choice to love and adopt a pet (or two) as a member of the family. But since when, as a culture, have we become so nuts for our pets?
I propose that a big part of this issue is the decline of nuclear families and rates of reproduction in this country. In 1950, 68% of the population was married and the annual birth rate per 1,000 people was 24.1. In 2003, about 58% were married and the annual birth rate per 1,000 people was 14.1. Way back when, most adults got married young and large families were the norm. Now a large family is considered anything more than 2 kids. Many adults choose not to marry or to marry much later in life and then choose either not to have children or to limit their childbearing.
We were created by God to be in relationship -first with Him, then with others. God gifted us, both men and women, to nurture life. When our homes are not full of children, often we turn to a pet to fill this need. This can be a beautiful thing! I know that the love and companionship provided by a good pet lowers blood pressure and soothes the emotions. Pets who need regular walks challenge us to improve our fitness. Special dogs are used to bring joy to sick children in hospitals and the elderly in nursing homes. All of this is wonderful, a gift from God. But since when did our pets need so much junk from the big box pet supply store??
My beef is that, as a society, we have more heart for puppies than we do for babies. Don’t think so? Then why, in the Triangle area of North Carolina, are there 16 big box pet supply stores (10 PetsMart, 6 PetCo) and a mere 5 big box baby supply stores (2 Babies R’ Us, 3 Baby Depot)? In the same geographical area, why are there more than three times as many pet supply stores than baby supply stores?
I have a friend who used to work as a nanny. Suddenly, her employers started giving her a hard time about her salary. They complained to her that the only way they were able to continue to pay her from their monthly budget was to take money from their children's college funds to pay for other expenses. Can you guess what those "other expenses" were? Their dog needed surgery. I don't know the nature of the dog's medical problem, but our priorities are certainly out of whack when we'll sacrifice our children's futures to prolong the life of a pet. My friend eventually left their employment.
I’d like to issue a challenge to all of us living in the modern, Western world: be about your family. God sets the solitary in families (Psalm 68:6). Love your pets, but love your children, even those unborn, even more. Make your offspring your priority. Maybe Babies R’ Us will need to expand to a location near you.